Because they are.
You just happen to focus on the ends much more than the starts.
What you also fail to acknowledge is each moment is
Empower yourself with the knowledge that you are not the only one. There are many of you, in fact, in this exact same situation.
You are not alone. Ever.
Use this knowledge to see that you are not an outcast, you have not been forgotten.
What is healing? What do healers do?
Are you sure you want to hear this?