All About You

MAP

How can you have a relationship with someone – or something – you don’t even know?

Because you do.  You have a relationship with the unknown.



How do you interact with that you do not know?

Think of all the ways you occur. 



What make the neighbor you do not know different from the person on the other side of the world you give your money to?

How do you react – or not – to the strangers you see on TV?

All of these situations are relative to you – even the situations you do not know about.

These are all a way to learn about you.



Your involvement does not determine whether or not you are involved.

You always are – even when it appears to you that you are not.  You do not have to see in order to be seen.



A relationship is simply the connection between this and that, here and there, me and you, us and them.

You just perceive things easier when they are in front of you or in your so-called awareness.



Open yourself to that which you do not see, to that which you are unaware.

You will not blow your mind – just expand.

You will learn much about who you are when you pay attention to what you believe you don’t feel.



You may say you do not care – what makes that so about you?

You may say you do not know – how do you feel about not knowing, and then when you do?



A mere thought about yourself in relation to something else makes your relationship that much stronger.



What do you dismiss rather than embrace?

What do you remember rather than forget?

What pushes you to take a stand rather than walk away?

What do you take on as a champion versus letting another defend?

Where do you feel equal and free versus struggling to break out?



You are all about you.

And in that you are all here for each other.

Even when you don’t think you are.



You will always find a way to know yourself at a deeper level.

And your easiest way is know yourself through that which is not you.

Until there comes a time when you can begin to know yourself through you.



The game changes at that point and that point is no longer there – it is here.

Your life, and therefore your relationships, change as you know first who you are rather than who you are not.